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The Tablecloth of Grace

September 23, 2018

Several years ago, a good friend, Cathy W., introduced me to a radio show that I began tuning into regularly.  Insight for Living (insight.org).

I will never forget one particular story about grace.

Recently I found the story (here) and shared it with LB.  I thought it would be nice to share it on my blog as well.

The Tablecloth of Grace

By Charles R. Swindoll

Shortly after David ascended Israel’s throne, he made good on a promise.

He had given Jonathan his word that he would demonstrate kindness to Jonathan’s family forever (see 1 Samuel 20). Once David became king, he could easily have forgotten that promise. Certainly, no one would have forced the king to keep it.

But David’s “yes” meant “yes.”

After the deaths of Jonathan and his father, King Saul, David remembered his promise, which prompted him to ask, “Is there yet anyone left of the house of Saul, that I may show him kindness for Jonathan’s sake?” As it turned out, the answer was “yes.”

Ziba, David’s servant, said, “There is still a son of Jonathan who is crippled in both feet” (2 Sam. 9:1–3, NASB).

Without hesitation, David sent for Jonathan’s son, whose name was Mephibosheth. When the young man arrived, he bowed trembling. In ancient days when a new king from a new dynasty took the throne, it wasn’t uncommon for him to destroy every member of the former royal family. That explains the young man’s terror. Being Saul’s grandson meant he was as good as dead! But, of course, he knew nothing of David’s promise to show kindness to his father’s family. How shocked he must have been when King David reassured him,

“Do not fear, for I will surely show kindness to you for the sake of your father Jonathan, and will restore to you all the land of your grandfather Saul; and you shall eat at my table regularly” (v. 7).

Filled with a mixture of amazement and gratitude, Mephibosheth bowed yet again, asking,

“What is your servant that you should regard a dead dog like me?” (v. 8).

David did far more than spare his life. He made sure that everything that had belonged to Saul and his family now belonged to the young man who was not only undeserving of such favor, but he was also crippled in both feet. In addition, the king promised him that from then on he would have a place at the king’s table, regularly eating his meals with others in the king’s family (v. 10).

What a story of grace—God’s unmerited favor!

With a little imagination, we can picture a familiar scene in the king’s royal residence. Gold and silver fixtures held the flaming torches that lined the palace walls. Lofty, hand-carved wooden ceilings crowned each spacious room, including the banquet hall where David and his family gathered for their evening meals.

In one chair sat tanned, handsome Absalom with his long, raven-black locks of hair.

Next to him sat his beautiful sister, Tamar.

Across from her sat the young and brilliant Solomon.

It’s suppertime, and the call has gone out to all in the family to gather around the table. As David the dad scans the room to make sure all the kids are present, he notices that one is missing.

It isn’t long before everyone can hear a sound they have become accustomed to by now.

Clump, scra-a-ape.

Clump scra-a-ape echoes from the hallway into the dining room.

Clump, scra-a-ape.

Clump scra-a-ape.

Finally, the young man appears and slowly shuffles to his place.

It’s Mephibosheth, of course, seated now at the king’s table alongside the other members of the king’s family.

Once seated, the tablecloth of grace covers his feet.

We are reassured of the king’s grace as we read, “Mephibosheth ate at David’s table as one of the king’s sons” (v. 11).

Although Mephibosheth had nothing to offer David, the king lavished on him great honor. David made no distinction between Absalom and Tamar and Solomon and Mephibosheth. When grace abounds, that’s what happens. Favor is extended to the undeserving, which cannot be earned or repaid.

No wonder we call it amazing!

 

Thank you Cathy.

 

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Filed Under: Spiritual

Friday Favorites

September 21, 2018

It is

friday yes GIF by Denyse®

and it is time for my Friday Favorites!

 

Favorite # ONE

A Little Goat

On my way home from work, I drive past a house with a little goat standing in the front yard.  Once or twice he has managed to wander out onto the sidewalk.  Each time I drive past, I look for the little goat hoping he hasn’t managed to find his way out of the yard again.  It makes me happy to see him safe in his yard.

Why is a little goat being listed as one of my Friday favorites?

Because anything that brings a smile to my face when

I’m IN TRAFFIC!

reveals don orsillo GIF

is worthy of recognition!

 

Favorite # TWO

Last Minute Plans

It was hurricane Irma that interfered with the Shrimp and Grits Festival last year, causing it to be cancelled and rescheduled as Shrimpmas in December.

This year the festival wasn’t cancelled, but LB had to cancel our reservations and plans to spend the weekend in Jekyll Island, GA, due to hurricane Florence, because he was needed for hurricane restoration at work.

HOWEVER

It turned out that there was nothing that could be done on Saturday, so we took off!

We grabbed the chairs and headed to the Wild Georgia Shrimp & Grits Festival, stopping only for a diet lemonade from Chick-fil-A.

I’m okay with that.

 

Favorite # THREE

The End of Summer

Although I am not happy to see summer go, I like to think that the rain is going to stop, which makes me happy.  Many can’t bear the end of summer, but I want to share that according to the Huffington Post, there are

Worse Things Than the End of Summer

…one of them being “when the drawstring on your sweatshirt gets lost in the hood”.

“The tans will fade, but the memories will last forever.”

~Anonymous

Speaking of memories…

 

Favorite # FOUR

Memories of a Fun Summer

Favorite # FIVE

Fall

I have said it before:

Fall is my favorite season!

Though temperatures will likely remain in the nineties until January, the rain seems to have ceased, and the sky is beautiful.

I’m looking forward to what is ahead!

 

 

 

 

 

Thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog.


Filed Under: Friday Favorites

The Emergency

September 16, 2018

Over the past year I’ve come to realize that my blog serves as a journal of my life, my experiences and the memories I share with my loved ones.

Today I am posting a story by my Mama which she wrote on 2-26-09; She promises to share more in the future.  You’ll be able to find them on my blog by searching

“Mary’s Musings”

The Emergency

I’ve always had a thing about clean, being one of those people who think if a little is good, a lot must be better.  This has been a personal trait for as long as I can remember.  Don’t ask me where I got the idea of adding bleach to the dishwater.  It just made sense that two cleaners were better than one.

I couldn’t have been more than ten or eleven, but I washed a lot of dishes.  Today that would probably be considered child abuse.  I remember begging Mother to let me wash the dishes.  Finally one day Daddy said, “let her do it”. He should have added, “she’ll be sorry”.

Everything was going well until I came to the silverware in the bottom of the sink.  As I picked up piece after piece, I couldn’t believe what I saw.  The once shiny silverware had turned a dirty, dull gray.  I had no idea what had happened.  I only knew it was my fault, and when Mother saw what had happened, I was going to “get it”.

It was almost time for Daddy to come home, and he always came in the kitchen door.

So I waited.

After what seemed an eternity, I heard the car in the driveway.

I was right there when he opened the car door to tell him about my emergency.

He took my hand and led me back into the kitchen where he found some silver polish and a cloth, then proceeded to show me how to polish the silver.

Low and behold, it looked like new!

Not only had he saved the silver, he had saved my “ life”.

I will always remember that day as a turning point in my life.

There I was, without hope (and from a child’s perspective, that’s just how I felt).

So I went to my father, and without effort, but with love, patience, and understanding, he was there with the answer.

He knew what to do.

I only had to ask.

In the ensuing years, how many times have I struggled with a dilemma, only to remember my Abba Father knows the answer before I have even begun to form the question?  How childish my needs must seem to Him.  Why is it that many times I seem to remember to run to Him only after I have considered all of my other resources?

What a beautiful picture my Daddy painted for me that day.

Did he know he was preparing me to handle a lifetime of emergencies as God my Father would have me do?  Maybe, and maybe not.  I just think it came natural to him.

 

MDR

And my God will meet all your needs according to His glorious riches in Christ Jesus.
To our God and Father be glory forever and ever.  Amen.
Philippians 4:19-20

 

 

 

 

 

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Filed Under: family first, Mary's Musings, Spiritual

Calling All Camo

September 12, 2018

TBB has invited bloggers to link up for the

FALL FASHION FRENZY

I’m coming on board late, but better late than never.

Today’s post is all about camouflage.

Camouflage is the use of any combination of materials, coloration, or illumination for concealment, either by making animals or objects hard to see, or by disguising them as something else.  Examples include the leopard’s spotted coat, the battledress of a modern soldier, and the leaf-mimic katydid’s wings. (source)

Notice how I blend into the shrubbery?  I’m barely visible to the naked eye!

I’ve always considered CAMO to be a staple of fall fashion.

As I’ve mentioned repeatedly, it will not feel like fall in Florida for quite some time, but I’m breaking out a pair of my camouflage pants so I can play along.

  I went against my better judgment and wore them to work today along with a top from my first Trunk Club experience and black bejeweled sandals.

My camouflage pants are from the Rock and Republic line at Kohls.  They are actually “jean leggings” and are quite comfortable.  Although the same leggings are nowhere to be found on the Kohl’s website, there are a few alternatives.

Women’s Levi’s® 711 Ankle Skinny Jeans
Juniors’ Mudd High-Waisted Skinny Pants
Women’s Rock & Republic® Fever Denim Rx™ Midrise Pull-On Jean Leggings

Kohl’s // Kohl’s // Kohl’s

If you like Kohl’s and are in the market for camouflage pants, these are currently $59.50, $25.00, and $35.20 respectively.

If you don’t enjoy shopping at Kohl’s, there are plenty of options elsewhere:

Forever 21 //  Charlotte Russe // Old Navy // Shein // Venus

 

Happy CAMO shopping!

 

Thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog.


Filed Under: Fashion, TBB Tagged: linkup, ootd, tbblog

10 Things You Didn’t Know

September 10, 2018

About Me!

On this 2nd Monday in September, I am linking up with the ladies of the Blended Blog to share

10 things you didn’t know about me

1. Autumn is my favorite season.  It will continue to feel like summer in Florida for a while.  No matter… LB and I will soon take a trip to the mountains to enjoy the cool weather and the beautiful colors of autumn.

2. It was several years ago, 2008, I think, that I successfully completed a half marathon.  These days, I do more walking than running.

3. I love to travel, but I don’t enjoy flying so much.  I didn’t mind flying until our last trip home from Vegas.  It was during our Vegas vacation that what I thought was a cold turned out to be a sinus infection.  As soon as we ascended I thought my head was going to explode.  It happened again during our descent.  Then twice more before we landed in Jax.  😭

4. Hall and Oates are my favorite musicians.  I’ve seen them in concert three times.

“Alexa play Hall and Oates’ Greatest Hits”.

5. I am 5 classes from completing my bachelor’s degree.  Try as I may, I could not decide what I wanted to be when I grow up.  After taking classes [off and on] for the last 25 years, I learned that I almost have enough credits for a degree in Interdisciplinary Studies!  Currently I’m on the first of those five classes.

Wish me luck!

6. I have a giraffe collection.  One day I’ll share the story of my giraffe dream that prompted members of my family to begin giving me all things giraffe.

7. I’m obsessed with my cat.  Elvis is my rescue fur-baby and we will be celebrating his 9th birthday this week.

8. Mexican cuisine is my favorite.  LB and I try a new Mexican restaurant every time we go out of town.

9. Every Monday, I start a new diet.

10. I have owned 3 white Altimas.  Although it is not something that I can explain,  it is important that I drive a white car.  Unless LB lets me drive his Mustang.

 

Thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog.

 


Filed Under: TBB

Friday Favorites

September 7, 2018

It is finally Friday

[and not a minute too soon]

which means it is time for my

Friday Favorites!

After two sleepless nights, courtesy of my new psychology class, I finally got a good night’s sleep!

    It is amazing how seven hours of uninterrupted sleep can change your day!

 

The right amount of sleep will also aid in making the right choices.

Which brings me to my

Favorite # ONE

Vega Plant Protein and Greens

 I recently bought the book:

The All-Day Fat Burning Diet calls for a smoothie for breakfast on most days.

The Vega Protein and Greens is a product I purchased prior to this book and it works nicely in the smoothie recipes in this book.  The Coco-Berry Blast smoothie is especially tasty.  It includes coconut milk, mixed berries, spinach, chia seed, and this Vega protein powder.

Speaking of Greens…

Favorite # TWO

My new book has a recipe for a

Creamy Kale Salad!

Sadly, I can’t show you a photo because the Creamy Kale Salad has been consumed.

However KALE looks like this:And my version of the recipe looks like this:

 

Creamy Kale Salad

  • Servings: 3-4
  • Time: 20 mins
  • Difficulty: easy
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Ingredients

½ cup tahini

¼ cup water

Juice of 1 lemon

1 clove garlic, minced

2 tablespoons olive oil

Sea salt and ground black pepper

Kale, stemmed and chopped

Cucumber, peeled and chopped

Avocado, chopped

Tomato, chopped

1 can (15 ounces) chickpeas, rinsed and drained

Directions

1. In a blender, mix together the tahini, water, lemon juice, garlic, olive oil, and sea salt and pepper to taste.

2. Add the kale, cucumber, avocado, tomato, and chickpeas. Toss with the dressing until combined and serve.

I have had this for lunch every day that I’ve had lunch this week.

Favorite # THREE

Covergirl Outlast All-Day Lipcolor

My new favorite is #542 Brazen Raisin.

Even though I am affiliated with Mary Kay, I haven’t found a better lipstick product than this one.

The truth is the truth!

Favorite # FOUR

Shopping at Tanger Outletsin Daytona Beach.

LB and I made a stop on the way home from our Labor Day Weekend Mini-Vacation that you can read about here.

We did a lot of shopping.Believe it or not, LB found more deals than I did!

 

Favorite # FIVE

EXPRESS

It’s always been a favorite.

There are typically great deals to be found.

And for fit, the jeans cannot be beat.

However, the CLEARANCE RACK is the best!

I found a Cold Shoulder Black & White Gingham Top!

$12 Final Sale.

I got the last one!

 

 

 

 

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Filed Under: Friday Favorites

Labor Day Leisure

September 4, 2018

LB has been longing for a getaway day or two (or more) just to relax.  He’s a hard working man and loves to get in the car and go every chance he gets.  As I’ve mentioned before, I am perfectly content to stay at home.  However since he loves to go, and deserves an opportunity to do so, I’ll tag along.

Our FOUR DAY HOLIDAY WEEKEND began on the

Friday

before Labor Day.

LB decided we would give Daytona Beach another try, hoping for a little more fun and sun than we had on our last trip.

I took full advantage of my Friday off!!

As soon as we arrived in Daytona we were on the beach.

 

Later that evening I ventured off of my diet and joined LB for dinner at Jerry’s Italian Pizzeria and Tiki Bar.WINGS!I Love Wings!

 

Saturday

was Pool Party Time.

We spent six hours at the pool, listening to the sounds of DJ Drew and a few wanna-be singers entertaining us with their karaoke skills.

Saturday night presented an opportunity to attend a concert at the Daytona Beach Bandshell to enjoy the songs made famous by Elton John.

The sounds of The Rocket Man Show were loud and clear while we enjoyed dinner on the balcony of the Hyde Park Prime Steakhouse.

Although the view of the bandshell stage from our table wasn’t completely clear,the view of the fireworks after the concert was perfect! As we lingered at the restaurant watching the fireworks over the ocean I couldn’t think of anyplace else I’d rather be.

Early

Sunday

morning, we were up and on the beach in time to take advantage of the sunrise.What a wonderful way to start a beautiful day!

 

 

 

Thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog.

 


Filed Under: Holiday, Vacation, Weekend Fun Tagged: Daytona Beach, Hyde Park Prime Steakhouse, Labor Day, Sunrise on the Beach, The Rocket Man Show

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I’m Kim… and I love Pretty clothes, Pretty décor, Pretty days, and Pretty much anything that involves family and fun.  Growing up, My Mama told me more than once “Pretty is as Pretty does” …encouraging me to focus on the inner pretty girl, as she is the one that matters most.

Here on my blog, I’m sharing what I see as pretty.  Whether it be an outfit, an experience, an event, a memory or thought.  Hopefully I’ll share something that will be interesting, useful, or make you smile along the way.

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