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The Bucket List Blog post

January 1, 2019

A “Bucket list” can be defined as a number of experiences or achievements that a person hopes to have or accomplish during their lifetime.  Since it is possibly derived from the English idiom – ‘to kick the bucket’ we can also call it a list of things to do before you die (source).

To keep from feeling overwhelmed by such a great list of things to do, accompanied by the feeling that the unchecked items are looming, reminding me of all the things I haven’t done,  I have include items on my list that I have already accomplished.

After reading others’ bucket lists, I realized that there are so many things that I have had the opportunity to do; things that others have not been able to accomplish.  Adding these items is an exercise in gratefulness as it reminds me to

Appreciate the Accomplishments!

Even the little ones.

One blogger calls this The Reverse Bucket List and explains it this way:

“it is a relatively new phenomenon that’s been growing in the past year or so.  It changes your focus and your mindset.  Instead of focusing on the things you haven’t accomplished (yet) it has you focus on the things you have done” (source).

For a lot of people, the reverse bucket list has been embraced as a mindfulness exercise. It’s a way to look at being grateful for all of the things you have done.

If you’re looking for bucket list ideas, some interesting ones can be found here and here.

Achievement

  • Earn an associates (AA) degree
  • Earn a bachelor’s degree
  • Earn a master’s degree
  • Start a business
  • Start a blog
  • Write (and illustrate) a book
  • Create a piece of art (and sell it)
  • Start an herb garden
  • Be on TV
  • Be in a commercial
  • Solve a Rubix Cube
  • Earn a design degree
  • Achieve my ideal weight
  • Run a 7 min mile
  • Run a 5k
  • Run the Gate river run
  • Run a half marathon
  • Run a marathon

Adventure

  • Go parasailing
  • Ride on a Ferris wheel
  • Ride a scary roller coaster
  • Go ice skating
  • Go on a picnic
  • Go snorkeling
  • Go skydiving (preferably indoors)
  • Go zip lining (preferably not over a reptile farm)
  • See the sun rise over the ocean
  • See the sun set over the ocean
  • Drive route 66
  • Tour Biltmore Estates
  • Tour the US capitol
  • See all the Washington DC monuments
  • Go biking on the beach
  • Dance in the moonlight
  • Dance on the beach
  • Swim in the ocean
  • Drive a jetski
  • Pet a dolphin
  • Ski a black diamond trail
  • Go on a cruise
  • Dine in a celebrity owned restaurant
  • Attend a small town festival
  • Climb a lighthouse
  • Go on a spontaneous road trip
  • Ride in a gondola
  • Play racquetball
  • Pitch a game of softball
  • Rollerblade

Education/New Skills

  • Learn how to play the guitar
  • Learn to speak French
  • Learn a line dance
  • Master a video game
  • Learn Archery
  • Learn to play chess
  • Learn Kung-FU
  • Learn how to cook
  • Learn how to bake
  • Learn to change a tire
  • Take a ceramic class
  • Attend a woodworking class
  • Learn how to meditate
  • Take piano lessons

Entertainment and Events

  • Attend a Jazz Festival
  • Attend a Parade
  • Attend a Vegas show (Rod Stewart)
  • Place a bet on a Horse Race
  • Go to a Blues Bar (BB King’s, NY)
  • Go to a dinner theater (Alhambra Theater and Dining)
  • See a pro Football Game (Alltel Stadium)
  • See a Broadway show (Jersey Boys)
  • See a Cirque du Soleil Show (Beatles LOVE)
  • See Barry Manilow in concert
  • Dance in a club  (Ziggy Mahoney’s)
  • See the changing of the guard
  • See a Nascar race (Daytona International Speedway)
  • See a major league baseball game ( Chicago Cubs vs. Atlanta Braves)
  • Attend a Grand Ole Opry show (Ryman Auditorium, TN)
  • See the Backstreet Boys in concert

Life milestones

  • Prepare a will
  • Get a tummy tuck
  • Vote in an election
  • Donate blood
  • Attend a high school reunion
  • Make a cake roll
  • Make a blooming onion
  • Go to the movies by myself
  • Get a bob (hair style)
  • Go blonde
  • Participate in a wine tasting
  • Cook thanksgiving dinner
  • Build with Habitat of Humanity
  • Read the entire bible
  • Learn to snow ski
  • Learn to water ski
  • Take swimming lessons
  • Learn to surf
  • Build a snowman
  • Adopt a pet
  • Stand under a waterfall
  • Witness a solar eclipse
  • Be a bridesmaid
  • Take an art class
  • Take pictures in a photo booth
  • Work on a pottery wheel
  • Sew an item of clothing and wear it
  • Write a poem
  • Audition to be in a play or choir
  • Visit Disney World
  • Visit Universal Studios Orlando
  • Visit an art gallery
  • Have no credit card debt
  • Have my own business cards
  • Learn to use chopsticks
  • Make ice cream
  • Build a sand castle
  • Go canoeing
  • Have a collection
  • Plant a tree and watch it grow
  • Load and shoot a shotgun
  • Drive a tractor
  • Plant a garden
  • Take a dance class

Travel

  • Visit all US states 50 States, 50 Landmarks, 50 States of Bucket List Adventures
  • See Mount Rushmore (South Dakota)
  • See the USS Arizona (Hawaii)
  • Visit Yosemite (California)
  • Visit Branson (Missouri)
  • Visit Denali (a/k/a Mount McKinley in Alaska)
  • Visit Deadwood (South Dakota)
  • See the ALAMO (Texas)
  • Visit Gettysburg (Pennsylvania)
  • See the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade (New York)
  • See the Vegas Strip (Nevada)
  • See the Grand Canyon (Arizona)
  • Visit Yellowstone (Wyoming)
  • See Stone Mountain (Georgia)
  • See Glacier National Park (Montana)
  • Stand in the Southernmost Point in the Continental US (Key West, FL)
  • See Ernest Hemingway’s house (Key West, FL)
  • Walk through Grand Central Station (New York)
  • Walk in central park (New York)
  • Climb a tree in Central Park (New York)
  • Stand in Times Square (New York)
  • Be on TV during the Today show (New York)
  • Ride on a subway (Boston, New York, and Washington, DC)
  • See Plymouth Rock (Massachusetts)
  • Walk on pink sand beaches
  • Venture out of the country
  • Visit the Parthenon (Greece)
  • Visit Puerto Rico
  • Go on a Caribbean cruise

I’ll be adding to this list.

Thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog.


Filed Under: Entertainment, Lifestyle

Friday Favorites

December 28, 2018

Last Friday was my Favorite of all Fridays because I enjoyed the start of a staycation that lasted until Wednesday, December 26th.

Now I am back to work.

Alas.

But what a great Christmas holiday!And although being away from the office for 5 days was the best gift ever, I have some other favorites that I want to share today.

Favorite # ONE

While LB and I were Christmas stocking shopping last Saturday I was reminded of the bucket list that I have been adding to [and have yet to share].  One of the bucket list items is to try each flavor of

Pringles

This idea came to me when I was looking for items to add to my bucket list via google search.  I read in another blog that there are 29 flavors, but I count 22 on the Pringles website.

There were about 12 different varieties on the store’s shelf and I proceeded to add one of each to the buggy.  We walked around the store for about a half an hour before I decided that it was a bad idea to take so many Pringles home with me at one time.  So I put them all back.

We’ll tackle that bucket list item slowly.

Favorite # TWO

Sunday night LB and I experienced

Elf the Musical

at Alhambra Theater and Dining

Dinner was great.  I ordered the parmesan crusted salmon (which was SOOO good) and LB had the Holiday feast.  While Elf the Musical doesn’t compare to the Charles Dickens story, it was a very good show!

And as always, LB and I had a great time.

Favorite # THREE

In addition to the spectacular giraffe jammies presented to me by Stephanie, I also received a pair of ENORMOUS silver hoop earrings.  Richard thought it would be a good idea to try them on and LB caught it on camera.

This Photo

is definitely a favorite!

Favorite # FOUR

Friday’s

OOTD

Straight from Macclenny’s  Classy Crossroads Boutique

I wore this Merry Christmas outfit to work on Friday, so my blouse wasn’t off the shoulder as intended.  It can be worn comfortably both ways.  I love it and the jeans are very comfortable.

Blouse // Jeans // Shoes

 

Favorite # FIVE

 Holiday Hoopla

at Mama’s house!

I love it all!

 

 

Thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog.


Filed Under: Dining, Entertainment, family first, Fashion, Friday Favorites, Holiday

Merriest Christmas Moments

December 26, 2018

This Christmas was very merry, so much so, I wanted to share a few of

My favorite Merry moments.

I was awake very early on Christmas morning.  LB “lit” the fireplace and Elvis made himself cozy on my lap.  LB and I enjoyed our coffee and listened to Christmas music before exchanging gifts.

Although exchanging gifts also makes for Merry Christmas moments!

LB wraps packages beautifully!

And watching LB dance for joy makes for merry memories.Merriment and mild chaos ensued when the clan arrived!Elvis was Merry prior to their arrival.  He may not enjoy having company, but I am so happy to report that he is healthy this year!  We did not have to spend Christmas Eve in the Pet Emergency Hospital!Two little girls loved their Merry Mermaid Stockings! And later when I donned the

Merry Giraffe Jammies

It made me feel Merry to discover that there was a TAIL!Thanks Steph!

Later at Mama’s house, it was Pure Merriment to receive a bag filled with a few of

Gina’s Favorite Things

(Cover Girl Lash Blast Volume Mascara, Burt’s Bees Lemon Butter Cuticle Cream,  L’Oreal Color Riche Shining Peach Lipstick #910, Carmax Classic Lip Balm, Dream St. Kathleen Lights X Colourpop [Eye] Shadow Palette, and Buxom “Kimberly” full-on Plumping Lip Polish).

What a fun little goodie bag!

I’m looking forward to sampling each of these items.

It was truly a Merry little Christmas with many Very Merry Moments!I hope you had yourself a Merry Little Christmas too!

Thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog.


Filed Under: family first, Holiday

Friday Favorites

December 21, 2018

Today is a FAVORITE Friday because I have the day off!  I LOVE my days off!  Even though I spent most of it getting organized for Christmas and doing laundry, I am Not Complaining! 

Although this week has been a short one, it has presented me with several memorable experiences worth sharing. 

Starting with…

Favorite # ONE

Wendy

and I exchanged Christmas gifts at work this week this week. 

(Trivia Question: How many times has WENDY been one of my favorites?)

She presented me with the PERFECT coffee cup…

I love it!

Thank you Wendy!

 

Favorite # TWO

As I sat in my car yesterday morning before work,

A Special Lady

walked over and knocked on the window. 

I opened the door and she said “Hi Honey… Merry Christmas” and handed me this…

A Tory Burch Mini Ella Patent Nylon Tote

which she thought would go nicely with the Tory Burch Miller Platform Wedge Slides

that I acquired earlier this year and shared in this post.

Thank you Juenic!

Favorite # THREE

On Wednesday night, my nephew left me a hint in our

Family Group Text

With that, Amanda and I proceeded to meet today for our annual Divinity fiasco.

Favorite # FOUR

Although it has been advocated by the Talking Heads, I enjoy

Not burning down the house

Even though we set fire to the stove.

Luckily LB has a fire extinguisher stashed under the kitchen sink. 

It came in handy today.

 

Favorite # FIVE

Divinity

Amanda declared it to be a Christmas Miracle!

Even though the first batch caught on fire, the second and third batches were successful! 

@clayridgdon there will be divinity at Mema’s on Christmas Eve! 

Along with

Diabeetus.

Diabeetus GIF

Just kidding! 

I hope you have a Very Merry Christmas!

 

Thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog.


Filed Under: Friday Favorites, Holiday

What’s Up Wednesday

December 19, 2018

What’s Up

is a recap of everything that has been going on this month.

Because it is an immensely important topic, What’s up Wednesday begins with

What we’re eating

WE CAN’T STOP eating the Almond Roca that I made last Sunday.

We = Me

Almond Roca is a chocolate-covered, almond/butter toffee with a sprinkling of chopped almonds.

It looks like this:

It is made like this:

Almond Roca

  • Servings: 2 lbs
  • Time: 20 mins
  • Difficulty: easy
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Ingredients

  • 2 cups light brown sugar, packed
  • 2 cups (4 sticks) butter
  • 1 1/2 cups almonds, chopped
  • 2 cups chocolate chips
  • 1 tsp coconut oil

Directions

In a saucepan over medium heat, add brown sugar and salted butter.

Stir until sugar is dissolved and occasionally until mixture is bubbling.

When candy thermometer reaches 280° remove from heat and add half (3/4 cup) of the almonds to the mixture, stirring to combine.

Pour mixture into a rimmed, foil lined 18×13 baking sheet and let cool.

While toffee cools, add chocolate and oil into a pot set over low heat, stirring until melted through.

Use a rubber spatula to transfer melted chocolate evenly on top of toffee layer, taking care to smooth the surface.

Sprinkle remaining chopped almonds evenly over the warm chocolate layer.

Chill in the fridge

Once set, break into pieces and store in airtight container.

What I’m reminiscing about

As I mentioned in my last post, I have been reminiscing about an album that I remember from my childhood. 

What I’m loving

I’m loving these two…

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They spent all day with Glammy last Saturday and we had a great time.

What we’ve been up to

Same as it ever was… Work.

And the degree that I’ve been working on since 1984.

My class ended on December 14th and I am one course closer to completion.

Also I got an A!

What I’ve been working on

Wrapping Presents!

What I’m excited about

CHRISTMAS!

What I’m dreading

My typical New Year’s resolutions: to exercise more, lose ten pounds, and try to be nice.

What I’m watching/reading

Hallmark movies, the Food Network, and the Today Show with Kathie Lee and Hoda.

Last week I was very disappointed to learn that Kathie Lee will be leaving the show in April 2019.

What I’m listening to

After reminding myself that I have quite a few great Christmas CDs, I put this in the car…

What I’m wearing

With the help of my Stylebook, I’m wearing something different to work every day.

What I’m doing this weekend

I am DOING five days away from the office!

What I’m looking forward to next month

LB’s birthday is next month!

I never got around to posting about his 2018 birthday and now I can’t remember what we did!

But I’m sure it was fun!

 

 

Thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog.


Filed Under: Whats Up Wednesday

All Things Christmas

December 17, 2018

This Monday’s Linkup with the Blended Blog is

All Things Christmas

covering the topics: Décor, Movies, & Music.

DÉCOR

I mentioned in my Friday Favorites that I am almost finished with my Christmas decorating. Although only half of my Christmas décor is on display, I’ve decided that I AM finished with my Christmas decorating.

~

MOVIES

It is a fact that I have become a Hallmark movie junkie.  When I tune into channel 312, LB will typically ask “have we seen this one?” which lets me know that he isn’t really watching.

So far my favorite Hallmark movie has been Mingle All the Way.

“̔Mingle All the Way is a new networking app designed to pair busy professionals together for upcoming events, without long-term romance. Molly (Jen Lilley), founder of the app, is determined to prove to her family that it is a success. Therefore, she joins the app, and meets another busy professional, Jeff (Brant Daugherty). When Molly and Jeff are matched, they are both horrified to realize they’ve already had not one, but two disastrous previous encounters. Nevertheless, they agree to stay matched for all their respective upcoming holiday engagements. As the pair gets closer, perhaps their business arrangement might turn into something more this holiday season”.

(source)

And it will be airing again tonight at 11PM and Sunday at 4PM.

There are a few other Christmas movies that I enjoy watching:  Elf, A Christmas Story, How the Grinch Stole Christmas, and my favorite…

It’s A Wonderful Life!

~

MUSIC

This one is easy enough:

Me: “Alexa, play Christmas Holiday Favorites”

Alexa: “Here is a station for Christmas Holiday Favorites music “Holiday Favorites” on Amazon music.”

She’s the best!

Although I haven’t listened to a single one this season, I have some great Christmas CDs:

And a favorite from Mama that takes me back to my childhood…

A Christmas music compilation from W.T. Grant Company which was sold at these “25 cent” neighborhood stores as the A Very Merry Christmas record album series (source).

A Very Merry Christmas Volume 3

which included this favorite by Cary Grant.

 

Thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog.


Filed Under: Holiday, TBB

Friday Favorites

December 14, 2018

Although it has been a long and arduous eight weeks, I am proud to announce that I have successfully completed a course in Social Psychology.

Once again I can focus on my

Friday Favorites

And OMG am I glad it is Friday!

Favorite # ONE

The END of Social Psychology!

Nuff Said Stan Lee GIF

Favorite # TWO

Birthday Selfies!

On December 9th we celebrated Amanda’s birthday.

A few of us squeezed in to photo bomb her birthday selfie, including this little cutie who was giving Glammy Eskimo Kisses.

It has always been a December practice to wait until Amanda’s birthday has been celebrated before decorating for Christmas.

On Monday of this week, the decorating began.

Favorite # THREE

It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas…

Two of my trees are in place.

Most of my decorating is done.

A BIG thanks to LB for all that he does to help.

And thanks to Elvis for doing his part

Favorite # FOUR

Wendy’s Chocolate Éclair Cake

The holiday festivities at work have begun.  I know this because everyone is bringing goodies to work.

Last week Wendy brought her famous Chocolate Éclair Cake.  Reminiscent of an Éclair, it it made with graham crackers, pudding, cool whip, and [believe it or not] canned chocolate frosting. This is how she makes it:

 

Chocolate Éclair Cake

  • Servings: 20
  • Time: 30 mins
  • Difficulty: easy
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Ingredients

  • 2 packages instant French vanilla pudding
  • 3 cups milk
  • 1 (8 ounce) container Cool Whip topping
  • 1 box graham crackers
  • 1 can dark chocolate frosting

Instructions

  1. In a medium bowl, whisk together pudding mix and milk until smooth. Fold in whipped topping.
  2. Line bottom of a 9-inch x 13-inch pan with a single layer of graham crackers. Pour half the pudding mixture over the crackers and spread evenly.
  3. Top with another layer of crackers. Pour the remaining pudding mixture over the second layer of crackers and top with a third layer of crackers.
  4. Microwave the frosting just a few seconds, then stir, pour, and spread the frosting over the top layer of graham crackers.
  5. Refrigerate at least 8 hours or overnight. Serve chilled and store covered in the refrigerator.

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Favorite # FIVE

Christmas Cards!

It always makes me feel special to receive Christmas cards and I’ve collected a few already.

This one is my favorite:

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Filed Under: Friday Favorites, Holiday

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I’m Kim… and I love Pretty clothes, Pretty décor, Pretty days, and Pretty much anything that involves family and fun.  Growing up, My Mama told me more than once “Pretty is as Pretty does” …encouraging me to focus on the inner pretty girl, as she is the one that matters most.

Here on my blog, I’m sharing what I see as pretty.  Whether it be an outfit, an experience, an event, a memory or thought.  Hopefully I’ll share something that will be interesting, useful, or make you smile along the way.

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