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Dear Daddy

March 1, 2019

Today would have been your 73rd birthday.  Not a day goes by that I don’t think about you.

A lot has happened since you’ve been gone.

Sydney was born shortly after you left.  You didn’t get to meet her, but I know you would love her.  She looks so much like Gina.

Stephanie, Amanda, Richard, Kyle, Clay, and Dillon have all graduated from high-school.  Some have gone on to graduate from college…with the highest distinction.

~

All your grandsons are very protective.

Clay has been true to his word.  He takes good care of his Mema.  He has a manner about him that is remarkably familiar.  I always think of you when I see him.

Clay married Chynna; now they have a little boy and two little girls.

Richard had a hard time after you left; we spent many nights consoling him.  He had just turned 11.

You would be so proud of him today.

He is a preacher.  Richard married Emily… and now they have two little girls.

Lydia is Richard’s oldest;  although she doesn’t look like me, if you spent time with her, she would remind you of me when I was a little girl [according to Mama].Can you believe I’m a Glammy???

You might find it hard to believe, but all your grandchildren remember you vividly;  And your great-grandchildren know you from the many photos they’ve seen.

I know you would enjoy seeing photos of them too:

Easter 2018 Thea, Levi, Sydney, Lydia
Lydia, Levi, Thea
Lydia & Rory
Rory & Lydia
Adrienne, Thea, Levi
Rory (and Levi)
Levi

They Are So Sweet

Mama is crazy about them…

you would be too!

~

We’ve met some of your relatives and learned a lot about your heritage in the past 18 years.

  Recently Stuart discovered and shared pictures of your great grandfather William VanSickle Cox.

This is what he looked like His nose is familiar.

It appears that he was in the service; something I understand you considered.

Mama told us about that.

We talk about a lot of things in our group text.

Speaking of group text…

When you left us, we weren’t as technologically equipped as we are now.

Today everyone in the family has a personal cell phone and we keep in touch via this group text.

We talk about you often.

I saved this bit of communication from last Memorial Day:

Remembering will sometimes invoke a tearful moment, but will always bring a smile.

Thank you for the memories and for leaving a bit of yourself in each of us.

 

You would be HAPPY to know that Mama is doing well. 

And we are all fine.

We know that we will see you again Daddy; and thank you for showing us The Way.

~

Thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog.

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  1. Debbie says

    March 1, 2019 at 10:45 pm

    😭😭😭😘😘😘

  2. Debbie says

    March 1, 2019 at 10:47 pm

    I learned about Audie Murphy from your Daddy, and I watched “To Hell and Back” with him. So long ago…

    • Kim Starling says

      March 4, 2019 at 9:19 pm

      To Hell and Back is one that I still have yet to see. I really need to watch it, especially now that I brought it up!

  3. Gina says

    March 2, 2019 at 9:12 am

    This is beautiful. Love you sis.

    • Kim Starling says

      March 4, 2019 at 9:16 pm

      I love you too!

  4. Lynell Johnson says

    March 2, 2019 at 11:29 am

    Kim this is a beautiful tribute to your Daddy.
    He was a wonderful man and a good friend to all
    Who was lucky enough to be called his friend.
    There was never any doubt about who was first in his life. After his love for our Lord, his family was his most
    Everything to him. I know when he left you’ll
    It was a forever ache in your hearts until you meet
    Again in heaven.
    He would be so proud of all of you and the
    Beautiful legacy he left behind.
    Thank you for sharing!

    • Kim Starling says

      March 4, 2019 at 9:20 pm

      Thank you Miss Lynell! You are so sweet!

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I’m Kim… and I love Pretty clothes, Pretty décor, Pretty days, and Pretty much anything that involves family and fun.  Growing up, My Mama told me more than once “Pretty is as Pretty does” …encouraging me to focus on the inner pretty girl, as she is the one that matters most.

Here on my blog, I’m sharing what I see as pretty.  Whether it be an outfit, an experience, an event, a memory or thought.  Hopefully I’ll share something that will be interesting, useful, or make you smile along the way.

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