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A Supervisor Story

July 7, 2023

I started a new job in April.  Still with the same company, but there is an entirely different vibe.  The job itself is intense.  So much so that the training lasted for 9 weeks, and we still didn’t cover everything.

During the eighth week of training, I and my 5 training team mates learned who would be our new manager.  Up to this point I had very mixed feelings.  Two of those managers had sat in on the training.  That said, I knew my new manager, before I knew he would be my new manager.

I wish I had a photo to post here.

It turns out that he is quite a character.  Yesterday he announced that he would be leaving the office at noon.  I was busy, but heard him say something about his son’s soccer practice.  I think.

This morning he did his typical walk through, stopping at everyone’s desk to ask how we are doing.  At the end of this daily practice he had something important to share.  He stood at the end of the cubicle trail and told a story that absolutely captured my attention.  I won’t be able to do it justice, but I’ll give it my best shot.

On Thursday afternoon he was standing at a food truck, waiting for the meal he had just ordered.  He was standing there alone for a short time until a man, whom he does not know begins to approach him.  The man had exited his vehicle, walked across a ‘ditch’, stopped in front of my manager and said, “I am going to faint”.  My manager, not knowing why he responded this way, said to the man, “just fall into my arms”.

This is exactly what happened.

The stranger passed out cold and was unconscious for “at least a minute”.  My manager said that he thought the man had possibly experienced a heat stroke, which would make perfect sense on a July afternoon in Florida.  Another man approached, and my manager appealed to him to call 911.  Shortly thereafter the unconscious man regained consciousness and did so with a scream.  He did not know where he was or what has happened.  When he finally composed himself he did not want rescue to come, nor did he want anyone to drive him home.  The man called his wife, who arrived within minutes, did not get out of her car, but instead simply followed her husband home.  Weird.  It took my manager 10 or 15 minutes to share this story, and he did it much more justice than I.  CLEARLY he had been traumatized by the event that left him dazed and confused as he watched the man who caused the scene drive away unscathed, followed by a dispassionate wife.

I gained a new appreciation for my manager today.  He is a kind and caring individual.

I hope he never has to fire me.

LOL

~

Thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog.


Filed Under: Lifestyle, Work

Happy Tuesday

February 28, 2023

Happy Tuesday…

Sort of

After 3 years of working from home, I was ordered to return to the office.  It takes me about 35 minutes to drive there if traffic is agreeable.  Today I left an hour before log in time… just in case.

Wouldn’t you know it, there was an incident on the Buckman bridge.  A bad incident.  I have nothing to complain about in comparison.

58 minutes after I left the house, I arrived at the office.

My badge didn’t work (long sigh).

I climbed the stairs and immediately tried to turn down the wrong hall.  Luckily Gary was there to correct me.  My area is empty as the members of my team have greater seniority than I and get to stay home until later this week. My desk was set up with new monitors and a new phone system.  I had to have a quick lesson on how to log in.

Then I unlocked my drawers.  The first thing I noticed was a can of mixed nuts.  They were stuck to the bottom of the drawer.

Thinking back to March 2020, it was assumed by all that we would be returning within a few weeks… you know… long enough to flatten the curve.  A few weeks may have been fine to stash items I left in my office drawers, but a few years was just a bit too long.  Like the 12 oz. can of soda.  I’m not sure why I saved it.  It was a freebie and not my type.  Maybe someone would need it someday [yes, I am one of those people who save things because someone might need it someday].

That can of soda was still unopened but had somehow found a way to leak out over time.  Everything was stuck to the bottom of that drawer.  And Everything was sticky.  I threw most of it away, then spent time trying to clean up the sticky mess.  When I checked my progress, I found everything was still sticky.  I let it all dry and wiped it again several times.  But every time I touch something at my desk, I feel like Clark Griswold trying to enjoy his evening after he put up his sappy Griswold Family Christmas tree

By 10AM I was back in business with work…  and thinking about finding a new job LOL (I’ve applied for 2 in the last week)

😊

The company has decided it would be nice to have lunch catered as we each return.  Since today was my day to return, I enjoyed a great big chicken Caesar salad from Panera. With the salad was a bottle of water, an oatmeal cookie, and an apple.  LB will appreciate the cookie.

It was a long day, and I suppose I’ll do it again tomorrow.SO here we are – back to the old normal –  Except I’ve been STICKY all day!

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Thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog.


Filed Under: Lifestyle, Work

Has it been TEN YEARS?

September 9, 2021

Unlike my Daddy, who only worked for one company all his life, and eventually advanced to the top, I have worked at many places.  Thanks to him, my first job was at

First Guaranty Bank

as a proof operator and later a teller.  I worked there from 1984 until 1985.

First Guaranty hired me again in 1989 and I eventually moved from the teller department to the loan department.  I stayed with that bank until 1998 when I took an offer from another bank.

I didn’t know how good I had it.

I worked a few months at Bank of America and then took another offer from SouthTrust, at the Gulf life tower. It was official… I was a banker just like my daddy, except different.  I was with SouthTrust until 2000.

After this I became a home school

Teacher

I think it was 2002 when I figured out that I couldn’t teach Algebra and needed help.  I enrolled in a class at FCCJ which lead me down the road to finishing college.  There was absolutely nothing I wanted “to be when I grew up”, but interior design sounded fun, so I enrolled in the program.  It was during this time that I accepted an internship with Liberty Furniture.  I was there until the Obama economic decline impacted the company in 2010.

In 2011 I was hired by a communications company.  I’ll typically refer to it as

“the company”

in my blog posts.

I started by assisting customers in the call center.  In 2016 I was invited to become a member of the customer advocacy group [CAG] working hard-to-resolve issues, and assisting customers who had reached out to the company’s office of the president.  And that is what I am currently doing.

In 2020 the company made the decision to have my department begin working from home.  I published several blog posts about that adventure here and here.

Although today is Sunday, and I’m not at “the office” it is my work anniversary.  I have actually made it to ten years with the company.  It is unbelievable that I have held out so long and it has NOT BEEN EASY!

If you know me, you know what company I’m referring to.  If you don’t know me well, I can tell you that it is a well-known communications company whose name I do not mention in my blog, just in case I happen to inadvertently say the wrong thing.  Who knows when a Google search may reveal my little blog, and someone may take offense at something I say.  I’ll make the announcement some day, but not yet.

 

Thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog.

 


Filed Under: Lifestyle, Work

HAPPY THURSDAY!

October 15, 2020

Today is the best Thursday ever!

In case you’ve forgotten me, I’m Kim, the creator of this blog. 

I’ve been very busy for the last eight weeks and all of my free time has been devoted to a college course.  Tonight I submitted an essay, which contained several topics, but one in particular that I wanted to share.  My professor chose the topics, this one was my favorite…

Interdisciplinarity

Merriam-Webster ignores the word interdisciplinarity and defines interdisciplinary as “involving two or more academic, scientific, or artistic disciplines” (Interdisciplinary, n.d.).  This is using more than one approach to address a problem, and in doing so, fashioning an entirely new field.  Gregor Mendel is the most popular example of a successful interdisciplinarian.  As a scientist studying pea plants, Mendel identified the concept of genetics using the disciplines of statistics and applying them to biology.  An interdisciplinary studies degree in higher education involves integrating multiple fields of study, up to three concentrations, as opposed to one major or a single field of study.

The first time I took interest in the word interdisciplinary was the day I contacted Liberty University’s Student Affairs to change my major.  Instead I learned that there was a possibility that I could soon retire from my career as a student.  As I would learn, the Interdisciplinary Studies degree would give me the opportunity to customize my “field of study” using courses I had already taken toward completion of my degree.

I researched the interdisciplinary studies degree online and I remember reading how it is important to select courses that you are passionate about.  Since I’ve never discovered anything to be continuously passionate about, I thought I may have trouble deciding.  But thanks to a 1996 whim to attain a degree in nursing, I had taken so many science courses,  I was on task to be a science major.  Clearly, a degree in nursing didn’t happen, but later in 2006 I earned my Associate of Science in Interior Design Technology degree.  This led me to decide I would continue on to pursue a bachelor’s degree in business, so I would be better prepared to manage my own interior design business some glorious day in the future.

Being a business major at Liberty University required me to take courses such as Statistics, Accounting I, Accounting II, and Business Law.  I soon reached my threshold of tolerance for business courses, so I made the change to interdisciplinary studies. Having a transcript filled with business and sciences courses, I chose to wrap up with more science courses, specifically behavioral sciences.

Today I will complete my interdisciplinary studies core class, Knowledge Synthesis for Professional & Personal Development, INDS 400.  I am writing my last essay for this last course to complete the anticipated degree.  It has been a long and winding road, “many times I’ve been alone and many times I’ve cried” (Lennon & McCartney, 1970).  Nevertheless, this year I will finally be awarded with the Bachelor of Science in Interdisciplinary Studies degree and I am thrilled.

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Thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog.

References

Covey, S. (2015). The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People infographics edition. Mango Publishing Group

Interdisciplinary. (n.d.). In Merriam-Webster.com dictionary. Retrieved from https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/interdisciplinary

Lennon, J., McCartney, P. (1970). The Long and Winding Road [Song]. On Let It Be. Apple Records. Retrieved from  https://www.lyrics.com/lyric/6793826/The+Beatles/The+Long+and+Winding+Road


Filed Under: Lifestyle

This Little Book

June 12, 2020

Right now there seems to be no way to watch television without being faced with some sort of doom and gloom.  To get a really good dose, listen to talk radio.

I am so ready for peace and for things to be happy in the world again.

During our extended stay at home, I’ve have been cleaning [a lot] and going through cabinets, closets, and drawers.  During one of these cleaning sessions I came across a little book…

The Mother’s Topical Bible.

Yesterday, in an effort to manage my thoughts, I picked up that little book.

Inside are specific bible verses, for specific needs.

When you need to forgive…

When you need personal comfort…

When you need inner peace.

I was looking for something that would speak to my current state of mind, and any of these would have been good.

But one topic caught my eye:

When You Think People Are Weird

Being that I do, I turned to page 317 and began to read 1 Corinthians 4:5…

“Therefore judge nothing before the time, until the Lord come, who both will bring to light the hidden things of darkness, and will make manifest the counsels of the hearts: and then shall every man have praise of God” (KJV).

As I continued reading, the topic title caught my eye once again.  I had misread.  The topic was actually

When PEOPLE Think YOU Are Weird.

Well… that works too.

This is The Mother’s Topical Bible

This is a special little book that was given to me by Mama and Daddy…. “signed” by both.

I’m glad that it is back in my hands.

~

Thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog.

 

 


Filed Under: Birthday, family first, Lifestyle, Spiritual

Fifty Four Facts

June 1, 2020

About ME!

No, I didn’t just pull the number 54 out of the air.

I remember when I turned 30, my mother-in-law joyfully told me “in 20 years you’ll be 50!”

Apparently I didn’t think it was possible.  It must have been that I was still in the invincibility stage that most people experience during youth.

Today I am going to engage in an exercise of self-awareness and share…

54 Very Random Facts About Kim

Here goes…

  1. I’ve lived on the “Westside” of Jacksonville all of my life.
  2. I was born on the same day as Marilyn Monroe, different year, of course.
  3. I used to have a problem with sleepwalking.
  4. My tonsils are long gone.
  5. Mexican cuisine is my favorite…
  6. However I could live on rotisserie chicken and diet orange soda.
  7. I fainted when I got my ears pierced.
  8. My Aunt Linda pierced my ears with two giant needles.
  9. Autumn has always been my favorite season; this year spring is a close second.
  10. Peanut M&Ms is my favorite candy.

  11. I graduated from Edward H. White high school in 1984.
  12. As a senior in high school, I joined the girls cross country team.  Today I’m still running.
  13. I have successfully completed a half marathon.
  14. At the age of 18 I was married; just after I turned 19, I became a mom.  Think about that for a minute.
  15. I am 3 credits (1 class) short of attaining my bachelor’s degree.
  16. I have an Associates degree in Interior Design Technology.
  17. When my son broke his arm, I fainted in the ER.
  18. I auditioned for and joined the Chancel Choir at First Baptist Church Jacksonville.
  19. At one time I was a bank teller.
  20. My first job was a proof operator at the bank where my Daddy was the Executive Vice President.
  21. The first time I took my drivers test, I failed.

  22. I was apprehensive about retesting with the same instructor.  Mema Reid encouraged me by saying, “better the devil you know, than the devil you don’t”.
  23. Red-orange is my favorite color.
  24. I’m terrified of reptiles, and sticks that look like reptiles.
  25. I’ve read the Bible from cover to cover, excluding the index.
  26. Although I took lessons for many years, I cannot play the piano.  Much.
  27. As a little girl, I signed my Mama up for piano lessons.
  28. I was the first one in my family to beat BOWSER [Super Mario World]!  When it happened, everyone screamed.
  29. I love to cook and bake.
  30. I’d love to manage my own bakery.
  31. Every morning I drink a cup of warm lemon water with cayenne pepper.
  32. I have a giraffe collection.

  33. My house was built on property that has been in my family since 1912.
  34. I DO NOT LIKE water chestnuts.
  35. At one time, rollerblading was a favorite pastime.
  36. I home-schooled my children.
  37. When I was young I wanted to be Marcia Brady.
  38. I played softball positions pitcher, catcher, and second base for my church softball team.
  39. I’m a shopaholic.  It is bad.
  40. As a victim of the Backmasking era in the eighties, I burned all of my records.
  41. I’m obsessed with my cat.

  42. I’ve maintained an exercise regimen since 1983.
  43.  I believe I can do anything that I put my mind to.
  44. I polish my nails just before I board the treadmill.
  45. While engaging in regular treadmill time, I watch the 4th hour of the TODAY show.
  46. I have worked as technical support resolving DSL connectivity troubles.
  47. The first movie I attended was a showing of “Bambi”.  I was six months old.
  48. Eighties music is my favorite.
  49. My worst habit is grinding and tapping my teeth.
  50. I’ve owned three white Nissan Altimas (2004, 2007, 2014).
  51. My eyes are green.  My Daddy used to call me Green Eyes.
  52. I do not have any tattoos (you wouldn’t put a bumper sticker on a Bentley).
  53. In 2015 I became “Glammy”.
  54. Today is my birthday.  I was born on a Wednesday in 1966 at 7:52 AM.

Every June 1st at 7:52 AM, my Mama calls me to wish me a Happy Birthday.

Thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog.

 


Filed Under: Birthday, Lifestyle Tagged: #bornin1966, Birthday

Quarantine Week 8

May 31, 2020

Week eight of the COVID19 quarantine began as an easy work week, mostly because it started on Wednesday instead of Monday.

Monday was Memorial Day.

Since Memorial Day has come to be known as the unofficial start of summer, it seemed only fitting to have a pool party.

Because it RAINED, the pool party became a KITCHEN party.But that’s okay!  I enjoyed the visit.

During our visit, my sister introduced me to a new pastime via YouTube.  LB introduced us all to fun with squirrels on YouTube.

Watch it… I promise that this will make your day!

~

Tuesday was a “just because” day off that I had chosen during 2019 vacation selection.  LB took the day off too.

We did nothing other than my typical cleaning/organizing.

I have been organizing everything in my house for the last few weeks.  I am expecting shoe boxes from the Container Store to arrive sometime this week.

via GIPHY

Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday I was back to work and there was no shortage of work to do.  I stayed busy and frazzled.

But on Friday afternoon, I said goodbye to my team and my desk for the NEXT FIVE DAYS!

If you’ve ever read my blog, you know that FRIDAY IS MY FAVORITE.  On this particular Friday, my long awaited Container Store shoe boxes arrived!  If I had written a Friday Favorites, this would’ve been #ONE!

This is going to be life changing.  Or at least, closet changing.

Not all that impressive in the photo, but this is only 20 boxes.  In my closet, there are 74 more HUGE shoes boxes with shoes that I can’t even see.

I’m looking forward to getting reacquainted with each and every one of them.

via GIPHY

This covid19 quarantine has been the strangest event I’ve ever experienced.  And the fact that we have now seen how quickly the world can change is mind blowing.

I’m not sure if I will be publishing any more “quarantine” posts, because things are changing again.

But life goes on, and this is my journal.  I’ll be writing about something.

~

Thank you for taking time out of your day to stop by my blog.


Filed Under: Lifestyle Tagged: #quarantinelife, COVID-19

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I’m Kim… and I love Pretty clothes, Pretty décor, Pretty days, and Pretty much anything that involves family and fun.  Growing up, My Mama told me more than once “Pretty is as Pretty does” …encouraging me to focus on the inner pretty girl, as she is the one that matters most.

Here on my blog, I’m sharing what I see as pretty.  Whether it be an outfit, an experience, an event, a memory or thought.  Hopefully I’ll share something that will be interesting, useful, or make you smile along the way.

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